Happiness…
The path to happiness is to know where you come from, and to be open to the possibilities that the future might bring.
Relationships…
A lot of times we have that people in our lives that when you communicate with them, they say why haven’t you called me? Why haven’t you emailed me? Why haven’t you talked to me?
I have a lot of family members, friends and people in my life that uses this phrases. It was not until recently that I feel I had enough. I was thinking about relationships, relationships are formed by two people and if both regardless of the type of relationship want to have a healthy and fair relationship they need to meet each other in the middle.
Many times you wait for other people to call you, or contact you. Remember that you also need to do your part. People get tired of reaching out to you and not getting a response. They will eventually get tire of doing all the work in the relationship. If a relationship is worth it, remember to nurture it and do your part as well.
So long…
Commitment?!
A few days ago I heard someone say, “I try everything but I never commit to anything”. He said it very proud. As a examined him say this, with a shine in his eyes, I wondered… is he actually proud to be like that? That moment has stayed stuck with me for a few days now. I have been thinking that in a way, I am like that, but I am not proud to admit it. How many of you do a lot of different things to experience it? But don’t do it a second time or often enough to make it part of yourself? And say for example, I am a runner… or I am a reader… or a writer?
When people ask me to say what is my favorite thing to do, I tend to want to answer by saying that I love to read, write and play sports. But right before I say it I stop myself and think… I don’t read as much, I don’t write often, and I don’t play sports anymore. So before I ever say anything I just answer by saying “I don’t know”, how can I say that my favorite thing to do something that I don’t do any more?
Throughout my life I have done so many things, I played different sports, I read many books, I did a lot of exciting activities. Am I still allowed to say that those things are my favorite things to do? Even when I haven’t done any of those things in the last few months? I have never been “really good” at stuff, that is why I try to do different things, but I want to commit!
Last year I started my word press account. I knew that I wanted to write, but after a few months I got busy and I never made time for it. This year I have decided that I will try to write something at least every week. I have so many random thoughts that I think can create something special, something good. I haven’t found a thing that I am great at, but until I figure it out I will be writing about my journey. A journey that will include, baking, exercising, nails designs, volunteering and lots of different things.
So long…